Words Can Heal or Hurt
Published on May 3, 2004 By oleteach In Welcome
As a retired teacher of many years who loves words, both spoken and written, my thoughts today are filled with memories of the effect my own words have had on the treasured people in my life.
At the early age of 17, I started out teaching seniors in high school who were older than I was. I really had to watch my words with them. I quickly learned that words have a great deal of power and that I had to be responsible for whatever words came out of my mouth or from my pen. They can either heal with love or hurt with hate. From the Bible we can receive affirmation of this truth.
Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who make it a friend shall eat its fruit. After reading about the soldiers who may have mistreated prisoners, my first thought was: "If they are guilty of such outrageous abuse, those soldiers must never have experienced love from anyone." If they had ever been loved, surely their moral sense would never have allowed them such inhumane behavoir. People who have been truly loved would know, instinctively, that such behavior, even in war time, is unacceptable.
Perhaps these young soldiers hate been away from their families and have been living in a foreign land too long. Perhaps they are hostile about 9/11 and feel the need from revenge. Maybe they were overworked. There may be a plethora of other elements that tempted them to be cruel...None are any excuse. Yet we can't stant in judgement of them until we have walked in their shoes.
My prayers are with them and for those they abused. Let the hate stop. Hatred begets hatred but love shared, brings blessings to all.



Comments
on May 03, 2004
I figured I could find your article since you'd mentioned you posted your first Blog on Greywar's site. Most of what you said here is stuff I can agree with. It seems that for most of us behaviour such as that you mentioned is unconsciounable, and we think there must be something very different about the way the perpetrators were brought up, or exist. (In fact, I'm so furious about what apparently went on, that I'm also trying to write my first Blog about it.)
I respectfully disagree that "...we can't stand in judgement of them until we have walked in their shoes." I believe the law provides a standard against which we judge actions, be they our own, or others'.
Great first blog! Hope to see more posts in the future!
on May 03, 2004
Thank you, Arquonzo. Yes, you are right. We do have to discern or make a judgement about actions that affect others. Otherwise we would never take a stand against the evil that we confront. I appreciate your insight on that. I think I have figured out just in what way you are related to greywar. You must have a great deal of patience. His housekeeping skills have much to be desired but otherwise, he is so loveable, so nearly perfect ... at least in my eyes.
on May 03, 2004
Yes, I was his roommate during the year 2002. Dunno if I would say "nearly perfect", but it was a good experience on the whole. Certainly he was entertaining to have around, and introduced me to lots of interesting ideas about history and philosophy.
on May 03, 2004
You should read the book "Frindle". It's on a 4th grade reading level, and it took me about an hour to read, but there's some profound meaning to that book that's lost on 4th graders. Read it.

Trinitie
on May 04, 2004
Yes, "Frindle" is a great children's book about the possible origins of new words. This book was published long after my official retirement as teacher but I am sure that elementary teachers make good use of it in their classes today.
on May 04, 2004
Teachers never retire, their student audiences just become smaller and more elect.